Listen to a Pre-Marital Counseling Interview with Dr. Marty
It is normal to have the jitters before making such a big step in life but there is a difference between the jitters and constant arguing and friction.
What I often find when couples come to see me for premarital counseling is that they tell me they love each other and want to be together but they find themselves getting into fights more, and more frequently. They keep hoping it will get better but it just doesn’t.
Together we can:
Figure out how to bring back harmony and work on the miscommunication problems you are having.
Learn how to handle the anger that has developed as a result of poor communication.
Often times couples say to me: “I’ve tried everything”, “I’ve tried being nice and patient”., “I’ve tried being angry.”, and nothing seems to work.
Working with thousands of couples over the years, we have developed ways to approach couples that will get them to respond in a positive way to each other.
Here are questions to ask yourself:
Do you know what to do with your frustration and anger in an effective way so that it will not harm your relationship further?
Do you know how to engage in effective repair once a discussion has turned into an argument?
Do you know how to negotiate with your partner so that they can see your point of view as well?
Do you know what to do and how to act if your partner’s feelings are hurt and how to turn a conversation into a positive direction?
Can you demonstrate to your partner how upset you are without provoking them and making them want to attack you or just shut down?
These are skills that are important to learn if you are to get past the crisis that is threatening your relationship and that makes you apprehensive about going ahead with your marriage plans.
Marriage is a big step and can be a beautiful union in life, and so remember, with a good beginning dreams can come true.
If we can be of help please call us at (1) 888-281-5850
and we can talk about what the next step would be.
Talk to you soon,
hi, i was wondering where your offices were? I am looking for an office in new jersey, new brunswick or edison for premarital counseling. Thank you
Yes, my office is located about 5 minutes from St. Peter’s Hospital – You can call me at (732)246-8484
Sure my office is right outside of New Brunswick.
Please feel free to give me a call at (732)246-8484 or you can
call my office manager, Roberta at (732)564-7722.
Look forward to hearing from you
Do you accept insurances? If so which ones? I am
Interested in going to your voorhees office.
We would be an out of network provider. If you would like help with selecting a good couples /marriage counselor you can go to our home
page and view our free short video. We hope you work with us but no matter what we want to help you make the best choice for a good counselor
I would like to get more information on premarital counseling. I live in Edison area.
Fees range from $80 – $390 depending on which counselor and the length of the session. Please feel free to contact me at (732)246-8484. The best time to get me is between 11:30 am and 1 pm.
there is also an interview I did on premarital counseling that you can listen to if you you go to: http://yourmarriagecounselor.com/relationships-marriage/pre-marital-counseling/