When your partner isn’t willing to come in for help with the relationship, it is even more important for us to talk. By waiting for them to be ready, you are putting the future of the relationship in their hands. If you really want the best chance to save your relationship, you need to learn what you can do.

Here is what I can teach you, even if your partner doesn’t come in for couples counseling:

How to better understand your partner, even if they don’t speak to you.
How to effectively influence your partner when you do talk with them.
How to deal with your partner when they won’t listen to you.
How to help your children in a household that has conflict.
How to handle difficult situations like your partner’s anger, addiction, or in-law problems.